Comments on: catch up… july http://www.beyondbuffalo.com/2009/08/catch-up-july/ Sat, 07 Aug 2010 18:06:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Rubs http://www.beyondbuffalo.com/2009/08/catch-up-july/comment-page-1/#comment-21 Rubs Mon, 02 Nov 2009 16:45:32 +0000 http://www.beyondbuffalo.com/?p=37#comment-21 You know... I don't feel so bad for missing out now seeing how I wasn't the only one who didn't make it out there - however, after seeing Homer's and Chrisfon's responses, I'm kinda angry that I'm the only one who *still* gets the cold shoulder for not showing up. And the only reason I missed was because I couldn't afford to fly out with Hubby outta work (and you KNOW I woulda if I coulda had I not been trying to keep BOTH of our asses from going homeless). I don't know why I care, but seeing these replies months later really angers me (especially when you didn't return any of my calls/emails all the times I've tried). Maybe you just needed a reason to stop keeping in touch? If so, then I'm glad my personal hardship made an easy out for you. I probably wouldn't have fit in with all the rich and uber-trendy friends surrounding your dinner table anyway... Nothing counts for nothing anymore - not even a friendship forged in Chicago. Fuck me for not slapping you with that chocolate martini when I had the chance. That would've been the best birthday present I could've ever given my sistah - a slap upside the head with some goddamn humility! (I'll keep the cherry, thanks). In fact, if I never talk to you again let me give you one last piece of sisterly advice for the road - just to show you how much I fucking cared even when I couldn't be there: Bitch, go to the fucking gym and lose weight because you want a few more days added to your existential tally so you can live out the rest of your life in happiness with your BF - and not because you want to look and be seen as something fantastic in and around SF. Life's too short at 40 to start giving a shit what other people think of you now. Now get your ass off that goddamn laptop and go take Stella for a walk - and give my home gurl a loving hug from me (assuming she even remembers me). Muthafucka... You know… I don’t feel so bad for missing out now seeing how I wasn’t the only one who didn’t make it out there – however, after seeing Homer’s and Chrisfon’s responses, I’m kinda angry that I’m the only one who *still* gets the cold shoulder for not showing up. And the only reason I missed was because I couldn’t afford to fly out with Hubby outta work (and you KNOW I woulda if I coulda had I not been trying to keep BOTH of our asses from going homeless).

I don’t know why I care, but seeing these replies months later really angers me (especially when you didn’t return any of my calls/emails all the times I’ve tried). Maybe you just needed a reason to stop keeping in touch? If so, then I’m glad my personal hardship made an easy out for you. I probably wouldn’t have fit in with all the rich and uber-trendy friends surrounding your dinner table anyway…

Nothing counts for nothing anymore – not even a friendship forged in Chicago. Fuck me for not slapping you with that chocolate martini when I had the chance. That would’ve been the best birthday present I could’ve ever given my sistah – a slap upside the head with some goddamn humility! (I’ll keep the cherry, thanks).

In fact, if I never talk to you again let me give you one last piece of sisterly advice for the road – just to show you how much I fucking cared even when I couldn’t be there: Bitch, go to the fucking gym and lose weight because you want a few more days added to your existential tally so you can live out the rest of your life in happiness with your BF – and not because you want to look and be seen as something fantastic in and around SF.

Life’s too short at 40 to start giving a shit what other people think of you now.

Now get your ass off that goddamn laptop and go take Stella for a walk – and give my home gurl a loving hug from me (assuming she even remembers me).

Muthafucka…

]]> By: homer http://www.beyondbuffalo.com/2009/08/catch-up-july/comment-page-1/#comment-6 homer Sun, 09 Aug 2009 16:24:32 +0000 http://www.beyondbuffalo.com/?p=37#comment-6 Next time I see you I want to take you to dinner for a late 40th present (I'll probably be in SF in October) Next time I see you I want to take you to dinner for a late 40th present (I’ll probably be in SF in October)

]]> By: Chrisfon http://www.beyondbuffalo.com/2009/08/catch-up-july/comment-page-1/#comment-5 Chrisfon Fri, 07 Aug 2009 04:13:29 +0000 http://www.beyondbuffalo.com/?p=37#comment-5 Sorry I missed it. I may not have been invited, but I'm glad you had a great and fulfilling birthday. After the past year you've had, you deserve it. Sorry I missed it. I may not have been invited, but I’m glad you had a great and fulfilling birthday. After the past year you’ve had, you deserve it.

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